Dear graduates, if you feel more than confused, feel more is actually lonely, I want to tell you, loneliness makes people sad, low tide, but at the same time make people stronger. I want to pat you on the back and tell you it doesn't matter, you're doing well enough, and you're going to do better. I want to give you a hug, let you know that growing up is not so terrible, I this timid person can, you must also be.

June theme, women fans want to talk about adults. June as a graduation season, inevitably there are many thinking about the direction of life trouble appear, and turn adults this topic, let us first from the youngest, the most confused graduates to change adults began to look up.

A letter to the graduates, in addition to you, also want to write to my20s.

First from my story, I have not been a person with good luck, the lottery is always drawn to the Ming Xie patronage, the invoice never won more than 200 yuan, missing classes when the teacher will always name, all the luck seems to have nothing to do with me, days pass by day, the number of samples without winning also increased day by day. In fact, also slowly get used to, no luck, hard work is good.

It wasn't until I went to high school and finished college that I began to realize that I had nothing to do with luck, but that i bet all my luck on the future.

I knew very early on that I want to do the media in the future, want to write worthy of being seen news, want to in this era of media reporters everyone singing decline, let everyone see or have good media, or good news, or someone in order to stick to the value of communication is trying.

In the atmosphere of 20 generations of young people in a confused and smloty atmosphere, I seem to be lucky many, thinking that if so lucky, do not waste.

At the age of 21, he was in the journalism department, but felt that he didn't know much about the media, that the balanced reporting in journalism, the careful verification of the theory of communication, was far from his own, and didn't know what it was like to be doing. Want to learn more practical applications of the desire, push me in the busy life of work and class industry, hard is to insert another internship work.

First into the enterprise, the first day to recognize their own shortcomings, next to the same period of interns have a steady stream of ideas and ideas, and I do not do anything except timidly in the side dare not speak. That day was a long time, I feel like a mistake into the strong forest of small animals, to find a way to survive, to sit and wait to die, and I choose the former.

So every day, I work at six o'clock in the morning, nine o'clock in the office internship, 1 pm into the classroom class, seven o'clock to do homework, ten o'clock to prepare for the next day's visit in the cycle to spend.

Those days are busy every day, turn around, study in Taipei, but three months to return to Taoyuan home once, and then eat with his family immediately northward. I always remember my grandfather every time I saw me and said, "Don't do it so hard, find something easy to do", and I remember that every time my friends wanted to meet, I was the most absent person.

I often feel lonely compared to the general confusion of the student community.


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I am in the internship occasion, feel that they and the YingYing out of step, struggling to catch up with other people's footsteps, very lonely;

I know that in order to be more progressive, to be closer to the ideal, you must bear all loneliness. But in the north of the night car, looking at the street lights a lamp of the past moment, I was still alone, feel that their efforts as if not worth, feel as if they do not have to live so hard, feel the night is long, can not see the day. The headphones are so sensational that this suddenly pops up:

It doesn't matter, you can rest assured that what you want to say, together, we turn into waves, break all the disguises.

It doesn't matter, you don't need to be like anyone, I'm with you, growing up isn't that scary.

It's a good band, Tiger Chocolate's Give Strange You.

The notes hit and i felt understood, the same, and i needed only to be understood, and a voice said to myself, "It doesn't matter, you can do this, you don't need to be like anyone".

Dear graduates, if you feel more than confused, feel more is actually lonely, I want to tell you, loneliness makes people sad, low tide, but at the same time make people stronger. I want to pat you on the back and tell you it doesn't matter, you're doing well enough, and you're going to do better. I want to give you a hug, let you know that growing up is not so terrible, I this timid person can, you must also be.

Finally, if you really feel lonely, the science psychologist Sea Moss Bear has shared two ways that help me, and hopefully for you too:

  • Tell yourself, "He's right, but he's sorry, " when others don't understand you, or when they don't have confidence.

The lack of understanding of relatives and friends may be the easiest time for us to feel lonely, but in every conversation, you can try to tell yourself, "He said the right thing, but you're sorry", and the idea is to find other possibilities in the case of "other people's ideas are true." Let you remain firm in the face of criticism from others, not to be influenced by other standards of the direction you want to go forward, and the value of your existence.

  • Practice encouraging yourself and thanking others

Because I don't have confidence in myself, I often rush to push back when I receive compliments, thinking, "How could I have said so well", and I also rejected the motivation to make myself more progressive in the process of refusing praise from others. If you too, i would like to ask you to practice encouraging yourself from this moment, accept the praise of others, and sincerely thank the other person, believe that they can become good, there is really a possibility of good.

Turn adults, is with tears, with loneliness, slowly learn the process of self-location, "turn" successful people, in addition to luck, more need to know themselves, explore themselves, accept themselves.

The process must be lost, but also absolutely lonely, and that is why we also have the possibility to create wonderful. Now I, still on the road, hope you are also, feel that they are strange also does not matter, you can do so, rest assured that you want to say, rest assured to do what you want to do, have me with you, grow up is not so terrible.

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