Why do people who interact or reply to messages less and less frequently? Did you say something wrong? If you also have the experience of "talking, feeling light", you may be able to find reasons!
On a leisurely night, you met him on the Internet.
Later, you've had a few experiences from morning to night, and you've had a few back-and-forth debates and finally respect each other's ideas. His lead topic is the constant addition of the magazine, each bullet in your heart.
Until one day, the content of his message gets shorter, the frequency of replies becomes less, and you can't figure out what went wrong. When the chat interval is lengthy, when the topic from a hundred rounds of bullets to a shot into the air, you finally admit - you chat, it fades.
I can't find the reason, you have lost your attraction to each other.
And if you don't want to repeat it, you may be able to take advantage of a few suggestions from the foreign website wikiHOW, and take advantage of it again the next time you meet your favorite object.
I like you very much, but I don't want to scare you.
How can you release goodwill at the beginning of a conversation without over-exploring human privacy? WikiHOW suggests starting with a "free chat" while the focus is on casual but not casual, for example, replacing "hey today" with "Hello Hello". (Recommended reading:"Talk, talk, talk away" relationship psychology: Why can chat alone fall in love with each other? ) )
The second step is to try to make the chat "interesting". While the interesting definition still depends on the depth of each other's chat and each other's personality, there are two things that can be divided into two categories: small jokes and witty responses. Small jokes apply when you know what the other person is doing/what interests the other person is doing, while the witty response applies to the situation where he or she is sufficiently responsive.
Next, you can find out what you share with each other. If you don't want to be in a "chat" state and want to develop further relationships, finding the same hobby is a good idea, because there is a consistent interest, there is the possibility of "a constant stream of topics".
The fourth step is to "properly show your good feelings and compliments" and let the other person know what you're thinking. At this stage, it's not about you chasing each other and saying, "I like you, I like you," but about expressing your preferences through praise, such as "I think people like you like sports are great." Who wouldn't like such praise?
When the above steps are complete, the next step is up to you. Why do you say that?
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What's the emotional conversation? No one can say for sure.
On the Internet or in books, you can easily find a lot of how to chat, how to fall in love to share, but no matter what the trick, in fact, have to go back to the "explore by yourself" the old way, only you know what you like, only you know what is right for you. (Recommended reading: The most beautiful love is to let you find love from yourself)
As an editor, I'd like to talk about my heart here.
Before this article, I always wanted to find out "why the chat will fade" reason, check a lot of data, read a lot of websites, I finally intend to give up. There is no standard answer to this question, and there is no real "cause". Chat fade, may be the other side to find others, may also be their own wishful thinking from beginning to end, a hundred people have a hundred statements.
I've been anxious about why, but when you think about it, there's really no standard answer, and it's not just about it. You and my whole life, probably no standard answer. Instead of taking the time to find an answer, ask yourself what you really want, and that desire is the answer.
Therefore, I can share with you how to be polite, for each other's sake chat, but how to chat, chat what, leaving you to slowly try and explore.
Of course, I also want to tell you that in the search for a stable relationship, any emotionyou you feel is normal, is also true, don't pretend, don't run away, because the pretend, escape d'or, and finally will return to you with other faces.
The only thing you can do is be honest with yourself. Honest lover, honest love yourself.