The way Obama and Michelle married, originally in love, not only the pursuit of freshness, mutual respect for each other to learn, can make the marriage go longer.
Former U.S. President Barack Obama and his wife, Michelle Obama, have since stepped down, still active in front of communities and screens, advocating for various public interest projects and occasionally sharing their lives.
1/17, Obama shared a four-part photo of herself with Michelle on Twitter, writing, "In every scene, you're the biggest star in my eyes!" Happy birthday, baby! (In every scene, you are my star!) Happy birthday, baby!)
They have been married for 27 years and have two daughters, and we used to see them hugging each other in public, lovingly, and never shy about talking about admiration and respect for each other on each visit.
In 2018, when Michelle Obama published her biography, "Becoming Me: Michelle Obama," Obama wrote, "The new generation will have a higher vision, and she's proud of me and the country because of the example Michelle has set."
In an earlier presidential farewell address in 2017, Obama said to his wife, "Michelle, for the past 25 years, you've been not just my wife, the mother of my children, but also my best friend." You take on tasks you never asked for, with grace, courage, uniqueness and humor, and do it your way. 」
In the crowd of applause, Michelle Obama did not say a word, just a look and smile, looking at the stage of Obama, do not say much, there is love, they let everyone feel that love, support, but also respect.
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Perhaps that's why a marriage lasts.
When asked about marriage, Michelle Obama once said in an interview with Oprah:
"Marriage must be a sincere partnership. You have to really like and respect each other because it's not an easy road. That's what I've been telling young partners not to think it's easy to keep two people together, to take care of each other, and to maintain this relationship for the rest of their lives. That could even lead to tragedy. But marriage is always up and down, as long as at the end, you can look into each other's eyes, to say to him I like you, that's enough. 」
In a relationship, we look forward to continuing to pursue freshness and stay sweet, but for the Obamas, the way to maintain love can be to respect each other, to see each other's good, to appreciate each other's qualities, and to be proud of one side when he succeeds, and to applaud him.
Of course, marriage will still have a disappointing place, after all, to let two different individuals unite, it is not an easy thing, but you can always see, as an intimate partner, you can also be each other's friends, each other's mentors, understand that the two sides are different, but also learn from each other.
"There's no doubt that being with Michelle has made me a better person. I wouldn't say it's because Michelle is a better woman, but I would say it was her patience that made me a better person. Former U.S. President Barack Obama
There's no doubt i'm a better man have spent time with Michelle. I will never say that Michelle's a better woman, but i will say she's s a little more patient.
We all know that each other is not the best, but we are willing to see each other's good, learn from it to grow. So the long road to marriage, I can be me, do what they want to do, and when we walk together, I know I will be stronger, because you, can let me continue to pursue, become a better person.