She fits these qualities, that is, XX XX several types, these bad woman rough classification or discussion, in fact, are suppressing the female as a human subjectivity.
Have you ever heard of green tea? Whenever mentioned green tea, perhaps the first time, we will think of the best life of a woman by the swashes. In the film, a "can't eat rabbit" plot is impressive.
Photo a photo of the best life of a woman.
I know at a glance that you're a green tea. 」
This green tea, I've seen a lot more. 」
"The most terrible thing is that they often make killers, and men act like nerds every time. 」
" The Best Life of a Petite Woman"
Type the word green tea in Google and you'll see green tea, green tea quiz, green tea artist, and more, with nearly half a million searches.
The definition of green tea is mostly a bad woman who looks harmless and is good at mind-set. The word comes from the "Hai Tiansheng Event" in China in April 2013. At that time, the outbreak of female modelsleeping waves, so some netizens invented the word "green tea bitch" to taunt the female model sedited by the sex trade.
In addition to the long-talked green tea, in recent years, there have even been the emergence of black tea, milk tea, coffee and other kinds of words, many media communities or YouTuber also write on these topics.
She fits these qualities, that is, XX XX several types, these rough classification or discussion, in fact, are suppressing the female as a person's subjectivity.
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These words are all kinds of "bad women" images, and by marking these "bad women", to teach women should behave. Through the fun of the way, repeatedly reconstruct the so-called "good women" and "bad women" division, and even to attract women to join the wary camp.
"The main manifestation of misogyny may be to punish bad women or to supervise women's behavior. " Not just weary women"
Who's a good woman? Who's the bad woman?
What's the problem with using XX to describe a woman? Let's start with the word.
First, refers to sex workers, and then is often used to describe women who misbehave. In addition, is also used as an adjective and verb. In terms of description, when you say a person is very, that is to say she is very debauched;
Amplifying the sexual desire to explore, preferences and preferences of attacking women is the expression of misogyny culture.
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In any case, is a negative term, in addition to deepening discrimination against the sex industry and sex workers, but also indirectly oppressthered the image of women who do not meet social expectations.
When we use the word to exclude other women, we actually consolidate our image and status by declaring that we are "not a bad woman like her".
Is it possible to be tired of women as women? The answer is yes. In his book "This Is Love Girl, It's A Woman," the gender scholar Wang Xiaodan mentions: "The misogynist network gains power by wooing "good" women while punishing the two-handed strategy of "bad" women." 」
When women choose to engage in relationships in ways that society deems bad, for example, by physically seducing others, falling in love with someone who has a partner, and so on, they are easily labeled as or. (You might think that if a man did, he wouldn't be called a scum man?) Recommend you to read this article: Is thehumiliation really the same behind "Scum Man" and "Bitch"? ) )
Rejecting dissent won't make us better
The next passage, I want to say to you who is also a woman. Calling other women different from you XX and rejection of dissent like this not only replicates patriarchal oppression, but also limits the possibility of intimacy.
And when we exclude other women, in essence, we don't live better, but may harm ourselves in the future and limit our slate to our own possible choices.
When the world is still succumbing to patriarchy, the path to women's rights is blocked and long. Feminism encourages empowerment and needs women to confront the patriarchy that has existed since ancient times. (Of course, it would be nice if men were involved.) )
"It's important not to denigrate other women, because they are as women as you are, even if they are not your friends." That doesn't mean you can't criticize other women, but you have to understand that constructive criticism is not the same as bullying. Roseanne Gay. Confessions of Bad Feminists.
Women have many faces, and by no means a XX label, that's enough to say.
When it is found that what others think, do differently from us, or do not conform to social values, criticism, insults and labeling may succeed quickly, but it will not help to create a better future for women, but will deepen the gap between the so-called "good woman" and "bad woman".
Once we're willing to see these words maliciously attacking women and actively resist using them, it's actually about letting that long-standing patriarchal brick wall gradually peel off, and making the path of being a woman better, and allowing feminism to go longer and longer.