National masturbation month is not a holiday of joke! This month, you should start practicing how to "love yourself".

Hey, happy moon masturbating!

It's not a joke, it's a national event. Every year from May 7th to May 28th, the National Masturbation Month is international masturbation day, with the aim of promoting the concept of sex and masturbation so that people can boldly enjoy their sexual moments.

As for how this festival came about? In 1994, surgeon General Joycelyn Elders argued on World AIDS Day that it was natural and normal for teenagers to know that masturbating was a natural and normal thing,coupled with her continued support for the issuance of condoms to adolescents. The ideas and behaviourthat that clashed with the social climate of the day led then-Us President Bill Clinton to resign her on December 9.

In 1995, Good Vibration, a well-known San Francisco sex shop chain, broke the stigma of masturbation by promoting the concept of masturbation as a healthy, safe and normal concept on May 14th, in solidarity with Joycelyn Elders.

Comfortable and happy, what's wrong?

You don't have to masturbate with a partner?
Does masturbation hurt my privacy?
Do only a few people need masturbation?
Does masturbation make it harder for me to orgasm later?

The answer sits all above is No. Masturbation is a healthy, non-harmful act, and in fact, masturbation is probably the safest way of all sexual behavior, not only to be relieved, but also to be happy, and even when you start touching your body, you will slowly know what you like and don't like, and find ways to make your body feel comfortable, and you know what you want when you have sex with your partner.

However, because society is full of "sex" taboos and exclusions, so few people can talk naked about masturbation topics, or tell us the method, so when we have sex, always curious mixed with shame, or find ways to suppress, even if you want to find a friend to chat is no way, because the people around you will always see you as a "desire for dissatisfaction" """""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""

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Here are some tips for you.

In the month of masturbation, we should start rejecting all kinds of stigma, if you don't have the courage to talk about masturbation with the people around us, it doesn't matter, start by knowing your body! Planned Parenthood Alliance, a non-profit organization in the United States Four things to note before masturbating are presented:

  1. Wash your hands before touching the privacy
  2. Use good slips to prevent damage to the private muscle, but also to make the entire masturbation process more comfortable
  3. Clean up your toys to prevent bacterial infections and, if you can, also use condoms or insurance covers together
  4. If you want to use the same toy with your partner, be sure to wash the toy and give it to the other person.

There are many places in the body waiting for you to explore, for example, vagina, etc., some people prefer orgasm, some people prefer vaginal orgasm, and some people do not pursue orgasm, pure enjoyment and caressing of the body of the moment, preferences and desire to achieve results vary from person to person, you can slowly try within their own acceptable range.

If you want to try masturbation, wash your hands or toys clean first, and if you're nervous for the first time, play a music first, or light a candle and find a way to relax your body. Then lay flat on the bed, head on the pillow, bending and opening your knees, rubbing at the speed of your own happiness.

If you want to try vaginal masturbation, you can start with rubbing in the vaginal mouth, light pressure, with the degree of body acceptance, slowly increase one finger to two-finger insertion, but also by pressing the vaginal wall, groping their own sensitive points. (Extended reading: light press, kneading,! Find the secret of masturbation in the orgasm belt)

Finally, add a little sensory stimulation! If you're a visual animal, you can play your favorite A-movies while you're reading erotic literature first, or if you pay more attention to visuals, hang up your headphones to "listen to" A-movies, or listen to sexy music, and imagine what's going to be exciting for you!

Now that everything is ready, masturbation month, don't you try it?