Women's fan X Xia Yuqiao's "Draw Words to Those Girls Around You" series of pictures and texts, Xia Yuqiao's weekly paintings/words, a handwritten letter full of warmth, sent to the dear girls. Let's talk about "export girls" today, are you too?
Text: Womany Irene Lei
There is a kind of girl who sees marriage as the only solution to the relationship, and the door of the auditorium is like an exit from life that changes the status quo, rushing towards it without hesitation.
She is an export girl who longs to get married and to build a family with her partner. Compared with ordinary people, she wants not only love, but also wants to escape the troubled life difficulties of the past by entering a new stage.
Have you ever thought that marriage is not an exit, but another entrance. You have indeed left the relationship, but you need to start dealing with other issues in your marriage.
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The doubts and insecurities that were originally in the relationship may still exist after you get married, or in other forms.
If you use marriage as an escape outlet, you may often run away from the status quo, only to find yourself back at a dead end.
Photo courtesy of Xia Yuqiao
Photo courtesy of Xia Yuqiao
Marriage is not an exit, but a long way to go after you open the door. It's important to decide who you're going to go with.
Written to all export girls, marriage is never a fairy tale, and happy days are not a permanent state, all rely on management and running-in.