Have you and your partner found each other's "words of love"? Take 3 minutes to see how you express your love!

"Why doesn't he always understand my intentions?"

"I know he loves me, but the way he expresses himself is not what I want."

To maintain an ideal relationship, it is important to understand the way you and the other person transmit love; Only by understanding each other's needs can we resonate with love at the right frequency!

Closing the distance between each other starts from understanding yourself, and when you are alone, you may wish to measure how you "express love" and "feel love" to make your relationship more satisfactory!


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The Christmas holidays are coming, coinciding with the return of a lover from overseas that he has not seen for a year; What kind of surprise will you prepare for him first?

(A) Write a loving card thanking him for his year

(B) Arrange a fancy dinner, dress yourself up, and talk to him about his growth and transformation over the past year

(C) Pick something he might like and give it to him in a beautiful package

(D) Take the initiative to take care of his return to China, and try his best to meet all the needs he wants and cannot imagine

(E) Give him big hugs and kisses when you pick him up, and prepare for the hot bed night in advance

Which of the five languages of love are you? Choose the answer in your heart and we'll reveal it together!


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(A) Write a loving card thanking him for his year

"Affirmation" is your word of love.

You are open-minded and like others to say affirmative things to you (e.g., appreciation, encouragement, praise, gratitude, approval).

Similarly, you often express your love and concern to the person you value with affirmative words, and every word carries your attention to him, and the sweetest mouth is yours!

Getting along with this type of lover is the most able to feel a full sense of support and spring breeze from language communication.

On the contrary, any sentence of "hard work" and "it's good to have you" in daily life is the best reward after paying for love, so please don't spare any positive energy words hidden in your heart, "love" needs to be said out loud before the other party can receive it!

Try different love actions to take love a step further >> Write down the other person's 10 advantages that you can't put down, and solemnly give them to each other!

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(B) Arrange a fancy dinner, dress yourself up, and talk to him about his growth and transformation over the past year

"Quality Time" is your word of love.

If you have a romantic personality, you prefer to put aside the worries of daily life, focus on each other completely, and enjoy the fun of each other.

You pay great attention to the quality of your time with important people, and you who are well versed in the truth of the universe understand that time is the most precious thing in the world, and it is worth thousands of dollars at this moment!

It's easy for their loved ones to accumulate memorable life experiences, which could be a brilliant trip, a room renovation together, or doing nothing while two people lie on picnic mats basking in the sun.

When you are fully immersed in the time you share, you will not only have the joy of the moment, but in retrospect, the most eternal happiness for them!

Try different love actions to take love further>> Invite him to join you in a handicraft experience, DIY at home or sign up for a workshop!

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(C) Pick something he might like and give it to him in a beautiful package

"Receiving Gifts" are your words of love.

You are pragmatic and careful, and like to give gifts to show your care and care for each other.

This gift doesn't have to be an expensive item, it may be a bouquet of flowers, a cup of coffee, the most practical thing is a proof of love, and once you see the other person's surprised and satisfied expression, at that moment you feel like you have the whole world!

As this type of lover, you can occasionally reveal your preferences or needs in everyday conversations, and they will keep them in mind.

If you often bother with what to give to the other person, don't be discouraged, for them, the gift is a proof of love, even if it is just a simple scarf, just wrapped around the body can make them happy for a long time, and even show off proudly with friends!

Try different love actions to take love further >> Find a day to go to the bookstore with him and pick a book to give to the other person!

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(D) Take the initiative to take care of his return to China, and try his best to meet all the needs he wants and cannot imagine

"Acts of Service" is your word of love.

There is love hidden in the action! You like to do things for each other, express feelings of care and protection, may be taking the initiative to add and repair worn items for the home; The home is neatly tidy, and a rich dinner is prepared for the family.

For you, giving is the best way to convey concern, and you can establish your importance in the other person's life.

With this type of lover, it is easiest to enjoy honorable treatment, and the "honor" mentioned here is not "luxury", but they always act with respect - because I value you, I am willing to spend time doing things for you.

If you can, find out what you can do for the other person, even if you squeeze toothpaste for him every day, you can convince him that your friendship is deep and you can't live without you!

Try different love actions to take love a step further >> Before the end of the day, do one thing for the other person secretly and wait until bedtime to tell the other person.

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(E) Give him big hugs and kisses when you pick him up, and prepare for the hot bed night in advance

"Physical Touch" is your word of love.

You are cute and clingy, and you like to express your love through physical contact. Good physical contact can indicate closeness, care, comfort, care. These touches include snuggling, holding hands, hugging, kissing, and sex, and in your heart, how often you touch, how passionate the love is!

Get along with this type of lover, even if you have your hands full of things while shopping, if you try your best to lean on him, his heart will definitely be turbulent and deer;

Occasionally touch his head unexpectedly, pretend to accidentally hug him into his arms, and simple physical contact can make him full of infinite imagination and feel how much you care about him!

Try different acts of love to take love further >> Try sleeping hand in hand tonight and let love flow with temperature and contact.

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