"People are not afraid of pain because they have been in pain. On the contrary, because it used to hurt too much, I am now more afraid of pain than anyone else." After the first season of the drama "Sauvignon Blanc", the editor of women's fans takes you to review those heart-wrenching golden sentences...
The first season of Lu drama "Sauvignon Blanc" has ended! Adapted from Tonghua's novel of the same name, "Sauvignon Blanc" is divided into two seasons, the first season narrates the ancient chaos period, the symbiosis of people, gods, and demons, and the world where the three major countries stand side by side, Haoling King Ji Xiaoyao loses his identity, incarnates as Minxiaoliu, saves Tu Shanjing in Qingshui Town, and then meets Xiangliu, the love story between the characters.
While the emotion in "Sauvignon Blanc" still flows in your heart, the women's fan editor takes you to review the five golden sentences, so as to analyze what kind of love concept is hidden behind the intricate plot of the characters' emotions.
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The wounds we have had do not numb us to the pain
People are not afraid of pain because they have been in pain. On the contrary, because it used to hurt too much, I am now more afraid of pain than anyone else.
For Xiao Xiao, the close lovers around her, even if they love her deeply, have abandoned her because of the righteousness of the family and the country, making her dependent on hardships and separation, so she has the heart-wrenching line "Who am I, who am I, I am just an abandoned person, I am powerless to protect myself, no one to rely on, nowhere to go."
Xiao Xiao also said, "People are not afraid of pain because they have been in pain. On the contrary, because it used to hurt too much, I am now more afraid of pain than anyone else." Physically, emotionally.
Pessimistic, because she is too afraid of the pain of having and then losing, so she adheres to the belief that if you don't have, you won't lose, if you don't expect, you won't be disappointed, and if you don't rely on it, you won't be hurt.
These personalities, like the marks of fate, are difficult not to convince, but if you can believe that the essence of love is bravery, and dare to love, you may be able to redeem yourself and no longer be gnawed by heartache.
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The ending of Xiao Yao and Xiangliu: No one in this world will wait for anyone for a lifetime, and they will naturally leave when they are tired
No one in this world will wait for anyone for a lifetime, and when they are tired, they will naturally leave.
Xiangyanagi knew the picture and pledged allegiance to the last moment of his life. However, because he realized that he and Xiao Xiao were in a hostile position and could never stay together, he was never able to declare his love for Xiao Xiao.
All along, his dedication to Xiao Xiao has been unrequited and practical, and in the end, he even chose to erase Xiao Xiao's memories of him and let her live happily.
However, even if Xiangliu does not take the initiative to withdraw from this relationship, maybe Xiao Xiao will eventually leave one day, after all, some love is actually difficult to understand if you don't say it, not to mention that love is from a person's best concealment, and even ends with fulfillment, which is even more extravagant to expect the other party to perceive.
Therefore, Xiao Xiao will finally choose to stay with Tu Shanjing, in addition to the completion of Xiangliu, a large part of it comes from her inability to feel the love hidden by Xiangliu, and what she wants is not those unclear loves and imminent departures, but clear and straightforward love.
So although "no one in this world will wait for anyone for a lifetime, they will naturally leave when they are tired." This sentence is what Xiao Xiao said to Tu Shanjing, but it is actually more able to describe the relationship between Xiangliu and Xiao Yao.
Ayoyanagi: I love you, and although I can't look good, I want to teach you all the abilities to protect yourself
Strong self-preservation, someone to rely on, and a place to go, may you be happy and worry-free for the rest of your life
There are many forms of love, and one of them is letting go.
For Xiangliu, loving someone is to teach you all the abilities of self-preservation even though I can't stay with you, so even if he can't say love, he still shows his heart through actions again and again. For example, he taught Xiao Xiao to learn arrows so that she could protect herself; He saved Tu Shanjing's life so that Xiao Xiao could have someone to rely on; The blood exchange for Xiao Xiao is so that she can swim at the bottom of the sea, and there is a place to go from now on.
It's a pity that Xiangliu died until death, and Xiao Yao did not see his love.
Fortunately, this relationship was not in vain, because Sangyanagi finally did what he promised: "Strong self-preservation, someone to rely on, a place to go, may you be happy and worry-free for the rest of your life." It also teaches us that possession is not always the arrival of love; Letting go is not a kind of love.
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Ayoyanagi: In addition to companionship, love can also be presented in the form of lovesickness
Sauvignon Blanc is the longevity of two people, but Sauvignon Blanc is a person's wasteland and old age.
Loving someone doesn't have to be a look.
Maybe we all thought that if you love someone, you can't let each other go, but seeing Xiangliu's love for Xiao Xiao in "Sauvignon Blanc", maybe you can finally be relieved.
Writer Tonghua once said that Xiangliu was her favorite character, and even wanted to write him as the male protagonist, but the more he wrote, the more he found that he was doomed to a sad ending from the beginning. A person who should be at ease, but trapped himself by kindness and responsibility.
Therefore, even if Xiangliu is deeply affectionate, the hostile relationship between the two is doomed to a little more fatalistic powerlessness and despair from the beginning - they can only love each other, they can't keep each other.
So we discovered that love can be presented in another way in addition to companionship - lovesickness.
And in lovesickness, it belongs to thinking and not the most lovesick, and Xiangliu is probably such an existence for Xiaoyao.
"Sauvignon Blanc" shows the public that happiness is sometimes mixed with unhappiness, but that is to make people pick up the power of memory, after all, if life is always as it should be, then no one will want to remember.
If we can believe that all the variables of life will silently become bones after the days are far away, then it may become a comfort for everyone who has experienced fate and death and people gathered together.
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Xiao Yao: The love that never leaves is exactly what Tu Shanjing can give me
You are the breeze that blows away the lies of the world and heals the vicissitudes of life
From the perspective of the whole view, the audience will know that Liu Xiang and Tu Shanjing in "Sauvignon Blanc" both love Xiaoyao, but Xiangliu's love cannot be spoken, and those loves that cannot be declared in the mouth, Xiaoxiao cannot be perceived. On the contrary, Tu Shanjing's love is willing to open her mouth and be willing to show, so that Xiao Xiao, who is uneasy by the cracks of the past, can at least quantify how much love she can get, and from then on grow the courage to love, so she will choose Tu Shanjing, which seems inevitable.
As described by writer Tong Hua's love poem "Healing":
You are the moonlight that blows through the wounds of the years heals the past;
You are the breeze that blows away the lies of the world and heals the vicissitudes of life;
You are the warm sun that opens the window to darkness and heals confusion;
You are the flowers that bloom the fragrance of life and heal the time;
The heart no longer wanders, love no longer panics, no more wind and frost, and the years are made into sugar.
The expression of love may not necessarily be through words, but when the weight of emotions cannot be balanced with words, and the gap formed between them cannot be understood, it may not only cause you to tiptoe away from the fate that belongs to you, but also hurt both parties who cannot love.
Years are rare, if we can all practice to say love, so that your loved one no longer spends his mind guessing your heart, but feels the warmth that gradually fades, then maybe we have a better chance of finding the one who stepped into the bustling cluster with you.